TL;DR: llama.cpp with --load-mode mmap used 21-32 GB of RAM, with ik_llama.cpp using 106-108 GB. -sm tensor killed my prefill, changing to -sm layer went from 36 tps to 135 tps. After that, -ubatch 2048 pushed it up to 400 tps at -c 131072. I can't fit -ubatch 2048 at -c 262144, which is why it caps